Co – dependency and Entities.

Many of us have heard the word ‘co-dependency’ used in subjects relating to relationships with mortal beings (e.g. humans) but there is very little mentioned about how we become addicted and codependent towards the negative entities or thought forms that sometimes we feel rule our lives. I have been asked over the years to rid people of entities that are pestering them so they can get on with their lives.

What needs to be understood is that entities are there for a reason. They are there as a teaching. They portray what is of imbalance, If the entities were removed that day and you just went back to your life without changing anything and without keeping up the practice suggested in my book they will appear again relatively soon because there is a relationship that has been established between both the human and the entity… As we know from co-dependant relationships they feed a need and often an unhealthy need, just like they do in the spirit world.

As they write in co-dependence books. ‘I don’t know where I end and they begin’. The relationship has become so enmeshed that in a way they have become one and cant do without each other even though they know that it’s not serving them.

When someone you have been co-dependant with leaves you find yourself empty and lost. You find that you have no sense of identity but after time you find your sense of individuality returning. This is what you will have to walk through if indeed you want to be able to work with what negative thought forms and entities come your way.

With the meditation for Sensitives up your sleeve (in my book) you have a great chance of working with and releasing the parasites that beset you and you will over time develop a hardy core self that will be able to withstand ongoing experiences.

It is time to stop looking outside yourself for a fix to your problems. You are the ultimate healer of your issue. That’s not to say that it good to know when you need help or guidance but you can work with this yourself little by little and it will be much more powerful in the long run.

Note to therapists, carers, and practioners.

If you are a carer or therapist you can assist your client by guiding the meditation for them and by looking into doing it yourself because if you are going to be working in a field that attracts sensitive – acutely sensitive people (and believe me more and more are coming) you will be encountering these energies too and you as a carer or therapist want to keep yourself in balance to be of good service. There is nothing worse than someone who is highly absorbent going for a session and not only walking out not grounded but with extra bits attached to them that the therapist didn’t clear because they arrogantly assumed they were protected and centered.

There are many therapists who are helping others because of their own wounding. Like they say ‘teach best what you need to learn’ There is nothing wrong with that but what is needed is the insight to know that your client is not you, your client may have a different path to walk, a different journey to take and you have to leave your own ‘shit’ at home so you can be of service to them and have enough insight to know when you are projecting your story onto them. Many therapists and healers are also walking a co-dependant path and wanting to or feel obliged to rescue or fix their client or a worst make their client become dependent on them. That is disempowering to the client. You must support THEIR OWN journey.

Possible signs of entity and negative thought form attachment.

· Tiredness
· Irritability/cruel thoughts
· Negative garbage overtaking your thoughts
· Craving for sugars
· Noise sensitive
· Paranoia

  © Odette Nightsky 2005